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Platonic Relationships。

Its one of the oldest questions known to man and woman： Can truly platonic relationships ever exist， or will there always be some bit of attraction there。 Do you believe in friendship between men and women。

1、Endless debate。

Is it possible to be pure friends with someone of your opposite sex。 There is no simple answer. Do you put aside your attraction to be friends。 Do you just forget about it。 But then， what happens the day it all comes flooding back to you unexpectedly。

2。 Some people think platonic friendship is possible。

There is no relationship that seems more genuine and tender than this one。 From the outside they look like a couple – laughing together， smiling at each other， unable to be apart for too long。 Asking for each other’s opinion before doing anything。 Taking care of each other， being there when life is fun and when it’s less fun。 Telling each other absolutely everything。 Such a friendship is possible。

But you have to set boundaries – if you get too close， love can catch you and not let you go until you give in。

There is also awkwardness：

People keep asking Are you guys together？” You are used to that question。 You act surprised， you look at each other， you laugh one more time and you say What， us？ Naaahhhh”

3. Can heterosexual men and women ever be just friends

Moonlighting， Cheers， When Harry Met Sally， Friends， The Office， Scrubs， Hes Just Not That Into You – all…thrive on romantic tension and excitement portrayed between cross-sex friends who end up either in a romantic partnership or a temporary attempt at one。

A new study in the journal Evolutionary Psychology has some compelling findings。 The research， conducted in Norway， found that men and women fundamentally misunderstand each other： She interprets his signals of sexual interest as friendliness。 He reads her signals of friendliness as sexual interest。

4。 Different perspectives of men and women。

Men。

Men are more likely than women to think that their opposite-sex friends are attracted to them—a clearly misguided belief。 In fact， mens estimates of how attractive they were to their female friends had virtually nothing to do with how these women actually felt， and almost everything to do with how the men themselves felt—basically， males assumed that any romantic attraction they experienced was mutual， and were blind to the actual level of romantic interest felt by their female friends。

Women。

Women are generally blind to the mindset of their opposite-sex friends； because females generally were not attracted to their male friends， they assumed that this lack of attraction was mutual。 As a result， men consistently overestimated the level of attraction felt by their female friends and women consistently underestimated the level of attraction felt by their male friends。

There are good reasons for men and women to view friendships differently： The men reported moderate levels of attraction to （and desire to date） their friend regardless of their own current romantic involvement or their friends current romantic involvement。 Women， whose long-term mating orientation tends to dominate， reported less desire to date their friend when they were already in a committed relationship。

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